This carefulness is the opposite of performative parenting. It is quiet, patient, and unwavering.
We honor that. You do not need to explain the code to anyone. miaa230 my fatherinlaw who raised me carefu exclusive
“My father-in-law never once said ‘I’m replacing your dad.’ He just started showing up to my recitals. Then to parent-teacher conferences. Then to my wedding rehearsal. By the time my first child was born, I realized he had raised me as carefully as any father ever could.” — Anonymous reader (adapted from online forums) This carefulness is the opposite of performative parenting